Hi, Ally23, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). I think the long distance turned into the reality of day-to-day got him. Before, he knew that you would go away for 4 months but moving in with him, permanently, that is a huge change. He liked the "idea" of marriage and living with you (based on holidays) but the reality wasn't something he was prepared for.
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