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Old Jul 04, 2015, 07:05 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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I strongly suspect based on past experience (he had a huge upheaval in his life previously and struggled to cope) that this is some kind of breakdown related to the commitment we have entered.
Sounds reasonable to me too. Your permanent presence would also be a major upheaval in his life.

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I am now leaving in a few days and have accepted this as being completely over after I asked him if there was any way we could even live like room mates while he made sure this was the right thing to do. He absolutely refused saying he was 100% sure of the break up.
I admire your resilience. I am very sorry that it has become necessary to call upon that resilience. Stay strong!
Thanks for this!
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