That is terrible! I am not that knowledgable of the legal end of this but it seems very suspicious that your T did not show you the forwarding files and recieve your signature releasing any info to the other docs., etc.
Must be a real unstable character himself. I would see if you can do anything legally in regards to this to prevent this bastard from continuing this sort of record keeping and divulging personal issues with others. It is stuff like this that gives T's in general a bad reputation, while there are still reputable ones out there. I say talk to a lawyer if possible and get this creep !!
Take care of yourself,
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON