Unloaded alott, did'nt sleep last night, trying to put in perspective everything you said. Thanks for the reply!!
Major problem in the family is who I was, the injury and rxed as BP. And who I am now. I'm not fun to be around most of the time because of the swings. So they don't know who will show up, me or the alter ego.They can't/won't except I'm sick, so I'm to carry on. No one in the family has BP, so they don't understand even after two trips to the hosiptal.

I do understand what you are saying about addressing the situations. I just get upset that I'm the one who is making all the consessions. They won't take a step........

Am I in the wrong for having these feelings?