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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
Very well said. I was really put in a situation with conditions like the ones you describe. My ex T didnīt take her responsibility and she acted like some things didnīt happen.
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Same here. It's called gaslighting. Seems that some Ts are totally incapable of honest self-reflection, or at least in their professional role since the client blaming is so ingrained. It's not an easy job and the ones who can come forward and admit mistakes and acknowledge when they have been triggered into vulnerabilities and neuroses, have my respect.
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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
I have been so hurt by this. As an example I canīt go into town without thinking of this T. I both miss her and hate her for what she did to me. I feel Iīll never get restitution and my only hope is to find another T to be able to work through all this.
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I can't get thru a single day without thinking of my T. I also miss her and am disgusted and horrified with her simultaneously. I thought my only hope was to find another T, but even that now seems unlikely to provide much relief. Feels like I have endured some sort of psychological torture and then got dumped on the roadside.