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Originally Posted by Nya378
It's all become crammed into one big issue. Anytime I try to talk to him, it ends up being my fault. I don't feel like I can talk to him anymore. I can't do anything right in his eyes anymore unless I baby him and totally cater to his wants and "needs"
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It can at times seem like it's better to cater to those whose sensitivities need extra special attention. In the long run, unhappiness takes over which spirals to panic, dread and more. And if he isn't even open to viewing you with a tender heart, not certain what else you can do, aside from maintaining your own sense of identity and truth, aside from working on yourself and your reaction to him, expressed or internalized, it's truly a shame to hear he's not tender.