HI,
I think you should go since y'all are married (if y'all were dating probably not)and they're going to help you get a job(even better)...my boyfriend is from outside the US and he wants to move back and take me with him I don't know about that!lol...oh and you can always visit your mom once or twice a year and you'll get used to that plus you can Skype!!lol...Ive gone years without seeing my mom and we're very close.