When I first started with my T I apologized for everything. You name it, everything. For the first few months every time I apologized it was met with; "stop saying you're sorry", "you don't have to apologize", "no need to say you're sorry", etc. Then after a few months only every so many apologizes were acknowledged, now she acknowledges none of them and I find myself apologizing less. I'm guessing this was her plan and it worked. I don't find myself apologizing to her as often anymore nor do I feel like I need to. I don't know how it worked but just my experience with apologizes to T. My T does still respond to whatever I send, just 'ignores' the apology part.
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