Yes its certainly normal to be jealous.. I have been jelaous before but never about someone who is not really my type and someone I am not together with. Its new for me so I was wondering if this was normal even the situation. But I will think it is when you guys here say so

Yes I have my guard up if I should get to know him better. Since he has answered violence with violence ( another thread I made just days ago ) I have my wonders if its an abusive person or if its an intermittent explosive disorder he has. If its mentally instead of abusive. I read about that intermittent explosive disorder yesterday. Maybe this disorder has nothing to do with it either since he gets offended first and it was some extreme situation. But its clear he lacks control whether he is abusive or not. He say he feels justified using violence back and I guess that is another red flag.

Thank you both of you for replying, brainhi and Iwonderabout.