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Originally Posted by l00king4answers79
I spoke to him about it the other night. I don't think he realized how important it was to me. To him it's just a piece of paper that they need to sign but for me it's so much more. He apologized over and over again, told me he loved me and that he would make sure he filed before the fall semester starts so he can get the money together. In the morning when we woke up I heard him in the kitchen and I went and saw him throwing out everything that came from her, including the champagne glasses from their wedding and some shoes she left there. I think he really means it. I just needed to open up to him.
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I hope that you are right for your own sake, but I would still be extremely skeptical. Please consider remaining vigilant. It is only a matter of having healthy boundaries and demanding proper respect for yourself. If he is sincere, it will still work out just fine. If he is a slimeball, you will be protecting yourself. If the same thing happens again, keeping big secrets from you, or if he continues to show other examples of not acting on his words, that makes him a repeat offender in the context of the relationship. Good luck.