Thanks Snapp66, How do you know that I'm not a AvPD with BPD traits? How do you know it's not my core issue and that traits of BPD are a result of AvPD problems. I'm not saying that you are wrong, I would just love if you could point out to me the reasons why you believe that, because I really want to know. I would really appreciate if you could take the time to tell me so that I'm not telling myself that I have both disorders. lol. Thanks