oh Willow, it's almost the same as my problem... it's good to know that I'm not alone, although my problem is a bit different. I've always felt that guys simply don't give time to a relationship to develop, they rush everything. But some time ago I met a guy to whom I'm really attracted and we were good friends for a while then it seemed to me that he wants more than friendship. I like him and I find him handsome, still I panicked and refused him, and I simply don't know why. Am I totally crazy? I've read about social phobia, can it be that? I have a very few friends and I have dififculties even in keeping those few.