well..i am so sorry that i just FEEL I HAVE TO post the link to this wonderful article AGAIN ( i know you may get sick of me talking about that article. but it made me feel SO MCUH BETTER)

http://www.youmeworks.com/self_reliance_translated.html

BUT REALLY dear Fuzzy.

YOU ARE NOT HERE TO PLEASE THE WORLD YOU ARE HERE TO LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

there are certain things that it`s o.k to say " i will do as they wish and get rid of it" BUT it doesn`t have to effect you in any way!! YOU matter frost only THEN your aunt.

don`t you know that-the world is not made this way. every one has to care for HIMSELF first....that`s the only way it can work. that`s why you feel exhauseted by it. if you feel somehting is wrong then you should stop it. EVEN if it can make her feel uncomfortabel it`s better than keep doing it.

you are the only one who can change your life, you know it right?