If you have to chose between your family and your boyfriend, which way would you go? Your boyfriend seems to be more what you need. Do you see yourself moving out to live with him, either now or after marriage. I mention that because living with your mother is not working out for you. For now , you might want to avoid discussing your boyfriend with your family.

It hurts to not have your family be happy for you at this time when you are anticipating joining your life with a person you love. Let go of hoping they'll be the way you want them to be. Project calmness and confidence about where you are headed in life. If family sees that you know the direction you are going in and don't need permission from then, they may eventually come around.

Try to get out of your mom's house and spend more time with your boyfriend.