Well, I told her over the phone that I need a break from hearing about her boyfriend. She actually told me that her best friend has been threatening to end their friendship if she doesn't stop talking about the boyfriend and bringing him along to all of their activities. So, I'm clearly not the only one giving her the message. Even so, when I remind her that I don't want to hear about it or change the subject, she'll talk about something else for 15 minutes and then find a way to bring the conversation back to him yet again! Other than remind her that I don't want to hear about it, I'm not sure what strategy to use.

I also don't know what strategy to use to dig myself out of my depression, put a smile on my face, and build up some energy. It's a struggle right now!