I want to look at this from a different point. It sounds that perhaps you are attracting certain type of women.
Aggressive, abrasive, pushy, touching too soon, perhaps trashy ( drunk on the first date????) etc the one that assaulted you now this one....

Are you exploring in therapy why you attract this women? I personally don't believe you need to change who you are or change how you behave. I don't believe there is anything wrong with the way you behave, you sound just fine, you sound like a sensitive thoughtful person, but there is something wrong with women you attract.

I in the million years can't imagine myself or any of my girlfriends behaving the way these women behave on first dates. This is not normal. I am not saying we are that awesome but we behave properly with people. These women do not.

I attracted wrong men my whole life. Just like my dad. I've been working hard to stop the pattern. Do you recognize the pattern?

Do you not recognize the signs before you go on a date? Should be noticeable during phone conversations etc something makes you attract these women .....whatever it is needs to be explored imho so you can attract right women.

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