He is not legally available, he doesn't want to get married again if he does get legally available, and he doesn't want kids.
You want someone who is available, willing to consider getting married, and wants kids.
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I'm just worried I'll remain hopeful for 6/7 years and that he'll never be ready, and then I've waisted most of my 20s.
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Yes. How much time will you give him to figure out if he can marry again and wants to have kids?
He misled you already on something of major importance. You can forgive him, but you should not forget that. Even if he were to tell you that he wants to get married and have kids, how will you know that he is being truthful?
What if you tell him that you will consider dating him when his divorce is finalized? Because right now you are on the road to giving up for his sake so much of what matters to you. What is he giving up for your sake?