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Originally Posted by Bill3
He is not legally available, he doesn't want to get married again if he does get legally available, and he doesn't want kids.
You want someone who is available, willing to consider getting married, and wants kids.
Yes. How much time will you give him to figure out if he can marry again and wants to have kids?
He misled you already on something of major importance. You can forgive him, but you should not forget that. Even if he were to tell you that he wants to get married and have kids, how will you know that he is being truthful?
What if you tell him that you will consider dating him when his divorce is finalized? Because right now you are on the road to giving up for his sake so much of what matters to you. What is he giving up for your sake?
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I thought about waiting to date him when I found out. But I guess I'm selfish too, I wanted him now lol. We're both so young, and he has apologized to me so much for not telling me, he was embarrassed because they married at 18 and it was just something he wished he could forget about. He's more than made up for it in different ways.
I think only time will tell. No matter what, this whole thing has been a learning experience. I'm learning a lot about myself and how I am in relationships and I think if anything that's good.
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