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Originally Posted by divine1966
People always reveal themselves, the trick is to pay attention. When people tell you they don't want to be married you better believe them. And lying for 3 months (wow) is a red flag. The point is not that you forgave but that he is unavailable and commitment phobic. But it's your choice. If lying and not wanting commitment isn't a deal breaker for you then we can only wish you good luck with this.
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I think being afraid of commitment at this point in his life is pretty normal. I just want it to be an option in the distant future and I was worried it wouldn't be. I do think people can change though, and I do think that he's worth the time.
I also think people make mistakes, and what really matters is that they show remorse and genuinely apologize when they know they've messed up. Which he has. He knows he should have told me sooner, and he's apologized over and over and over again for doing so. Of course if I find out he's lied again, that's a different story. But so far, I haven't found anything.
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