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Originally Posted by lettuzw
The title says it all, i've never had a girlfriend, i'm 17, i know, there's still a long way to go, but i just that i will never get someone that loves me, i see everyone with girlfriends nowadays and i'm really jealous of their intimacy...
I don't really like my body, my friends say i'm skinny and that i'm fine the way i look, but i wanted to have a better body, with muscles and stuff, like my friends do... any tips? :/
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Dude, like you said, youre 17. Yes, you do have a long way to go! In my experience, its good practice to have a SO at that age but its probably better not have one. I know its not what you want to hear but take it from a 25 year old who just finally found the person who is best for me and "fits."
At this point in your life, you dont need to be jealous of their intimacy. You could change it if you want into something else; energy, determination, and positivity. Spend your time working out to improve on the body form that you want. Spend your time studying as women like intelligent men with a good head on their shoulders. We actually like that better than a muscular body.
Be a man who is kind hearted, compassionate, not after just one thing; sex.
I promise, promise, promiiiiiiiis you that in the long run, those qualities are better to gain (or hold onto) rather than feeling bad because you dont have a girlfriend.
If you become (or stay) a good, intelligent man, good things will happen and your future self will thank you for it instead of becoming a meat head who moves from one woman (or in your case, girl) to the next.