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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
I'm a femme lesbian in an area where there are not a lot of gay people, so I use online dating. I have no way of judging their behavior prior to the first date. I select educated women with good jobs who use proper grammar and seem to be emotionally intelligent via email/text. The woman I went on a date with this past weekend is actually a therapist!! The woman who sexually assaulted me is a nurse. (Fyi, the only one who was drunk was the woman who assaulted me; the date this past weekend was not drunk and really didn't do anything "wrong"-- just more forward/brash than I like). I really do not think the problem is that I am attracting the wrong people to me. I've gone on plenty of dates with nice women who I just didn't "click" with. The problem is that there is a small pool of femme lesbian women in my area and the only way I know to find them is through online dating. Regardless, I'm taking a break from dating for right now.
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I apologize if I offended you.. Sorry.
Listen I know they are intelligent and educated. I only go for men who are professional and intelligent. None is ever trashy. They are just very wrong for me. On the surface they are high class but a mess Deep inside. Yes I met some really nice men but didn't click because I subconsciously only got attracted to the ones that are wrong for me.
So I had a feeling you might be attracted to wrong women. That's why you don't click with nice ones. Subconscious attraction. I work on fighting this attractions.
Yeah online dating appears to be the only way to meet nowadays regardless of sexual orientation. I am almost 50 and have no other ways but do online.
By the way I dated two therapists and they were hopelessly very bad boyfriends. And the last guy I dated briefly has PhD etc but was a mess, none of the professional success makes them good partners.
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