Greg, you already have some of what Inky has in her! It's your "child"!! It's the eternal optimist, the one that has the blind faith/hope that things will work out, the one that, no matter how he/she tries, the smallest thing will bring out a smile. The part of you that creates anything including how to get past a tough moment, the part that wants to be taken care of and looks for a place to cuddle until that tough time passes. It's a wonderful part of anyone. All we have to do is learn to recognize that "child" and of course, nurture it!