Verbal abuse is horrific. It is also a CHOICE. He chose that behavior. The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans saved my life. If you read it will clarify what happened. Abusers are excruciatingly insecure and their behavior has NOTHING to do with you and everything to do with their low self-esteem and problems/issues that they have. You didn't cause his behavior, he CHOSE it.

He said I "have so many problems wrong with me".......that is called projection.....projecting onto YOU what is true about HIM....You feel crappy and numb because you were being abused....I wouldn't be surprised if he tries to get back with you........you were a verbal punching bag....stay strong, read about verbal abuse .