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Originally Posted by Angelwngs25
It's hard to break up with someone that won't answer your calls. If you were in my shoes, you would probably see it differently. We really aren't even dating anymore to be honest that's obvious since she won't talk to me. You can't date someone and not talk to them at the same time.
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You can text her something like: "Since you are choosing not to communicate with me, I need to end this relationship and move on." Then you have acted responsibly and done nothing behind her back. I once did date a woman (monogamously) who was not available enough for me. After trying to meet up with her in person to end the relationship and her not making time for that meeting, I ended up breaking up with her via email. I needed to let her know it was over before I could feel okay about moving on.
In polyamory, relationships are not always equal. Almost everyone I know has a primary partner (who they are usually legally married to and live with) and then additional partners who they do not marry and do not live with. Your fiancé sounds like he is primary partner. Your relationship with him sounds much more significant than your relationship with the girlfriend who you do not talk to.