Dear all,

I am new to this forum. My bf of 1.5 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, and I'm at the end of my rope.

Our relationship was perfect and harmonious. We never had any fights, and most of the time was long distance which worked out well. My bf brought up the marriage talk so I could move in with him. We filled out the necessary paperwork during my last visit to him, but then a month later out of the blue he says he wants to break up.

We didn't have any fights, although he was stressed out about moving to a new state and starting a new job. This caused him to be cold, get annoyed more easily and stress out over minor things.

He has been diagnosed with ADD when he was a teenager but doesn't take any meds. Since the breakup came so suddenly, I am wondering if he may also suffer from depression or bipolar disorder. He booked a ticket to come see me literally 6 days before the breakup!

In the meantime, he has shipped me my stuff back, deleted me off his Netflix account and put me on restricted Facebook privacy settings.

I have been reflecting on this for a while, but I still can't wrap my mind around since I can't find any reason to break up. We haven't talked a month now.

Is this depression or is he just an awful person but hid it well?