Oh yes, I certainly do too.
I'm usually calmer about it these days, but shouldn't be surprised I'm having a tough time atm I guess.
I do give her plenty of feedback as a rule but see it just as collaboration these days, which is lovely, when I'm not upset like this. She can get somewhat defensive, but it's rare and she's also good about admitting flaws and shortcomings. The whole lovely "good enough mother" thing- I'll fail you sometimes, but always be there to work it out.
I should remember that, it's a sweet feeling to know it about our relationship.