I have a female friend who recently became a mum. We have seen each other for several times since the child was born, the child is now a few months old. She knows since way back that I´m not that interested in kids and that I probably don´t want to have kids.

She now told me she doesn´t think I´m interested or engaged enough in her child and by that she doesn´t want to meet with me. She hasn´t told me yet she doesn´t want to be friends anymore but when I told her I can´t pretend to be more interested in her child than I actually am she didn´t know how we could continue to see each other.

She seems to demand some kind of "lowest level" of engagement into her child and she doesn´t seem to think we can still hang out as two adults. She lives together with the childs´ father and by that she has a baby-sitter if she wants to go to a movie or something like that.

I have showed interest in her and her child, like talking about the birth of the child and so on but she wants me to "get to know" her child, to look at it more and I really don´t have that big interest in her child to do that.

From my point of view I think she has to respect that I´m not that into kids and she also has several other friends who are more interested in kids and to associate around kids.

Anyone else who experienced this?