. I'm glad that your grandmother has stabilized. I have a suggestion that might or might not be good. Not sure....

Because you have more time with her, is there any way that you can have her talk about her life story? Maybe record an oral history. Go through old photos and make sure that they are labeled so that future generations won't be looking at the pix, wishing they knew who the people were. I've been working on scanning the old photos so I can give them to whoever wants copies (I even had family members come to me when my mom died, wanting CDs of the pix) and in case the originals are somehow destroyed.

The reason I'm suggesting this is because it has the possibility of being beneficial for both you and your grandmother. Obviously, don't do this if you think it will be detrimental to you.

Keep posting here. Make sure that you have some kind of mental health services in place so that you have someone to talk to when your grandmother's health starts declining faster. Even though they can't see you right away, once you're an established patient, you should be able to get in quicker in a crisis.