Whew, inny, that's a tough on and I'm so glad that you're accepting of the concerns there.

I like pegasus' idea. It would work if you're open with those in your life that you're a dissociator? If so, might that work?

If not (which I understand because I've told little), then I don't know that I would drive at all until something's been worked out with the part of me that's driving...to share the experience for the benefit of all including those in other cars.

I wish you well on this, hon. Please let us know what you're doing there?

KD