I met a woman online that I got curious about. We were texting. She didn't like to talk on the phone, so it was texting and im'ing in fb. She told me about her exes. I don't know if talking about your exes is an appropriate conversation, it didn't seem like it to me. She told me one of them was bipolar and that's why they broke up. Boy, maybe I should have stopped the "getting to know you process right there".
I finally got to meet her though. She has a lot of good qualities, but I felt really judged by her. She made herself at home without my saying "make yourself at home" which I've never experienced before. I felt that was rude. I overlooked it thinking that she had really bad social skills. But she really had some comments to say.
The first few hours were okay. She liked my dogs. I apologized for the apartment kinda being messy. Everything was clean except for a few dishes in the sink and my bathroom trash had trash in it.
After a few hours, she couldn't stand my dogs and had no problem telling me. I do have a cat and she would get annoyed when he made scratching noises in his litter box.
She never said please or thank you to anything (and I bought dinner and wine).
She turned on the tv and just started watching the Food network. Who does that on a first date? How are 2 people able to get to know eachother while watching tv and talking at the same time.
She was also dishonest with me about being a smoker, smoking pot and drinking (and I mean drinking). I think there were 3 empty wine bottles and I only had 1 glass.
I'm a really sensitive person and just about everything thing she said/didn't say really hit a nerve with me.
At the end of the date (yes, there were wine bottles and stuff on the kitchen counter where the pizza was).
The biggest issue that I had was that she didn't like bipolar people and I didn't tell her I was bipolar...I guess I didn't tell her because at that point, I didn't feel okay telling her I was because she said that.
I will not see this woman again. She is bad news.
I just don't know why I almost always get the people who drink/smoke pot even if I mention in my profile no drugs, drinking, smoking.
I am very tired tonight and not making a whole lot of sense.
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