Thank you so much for responding, I really need support right now.

They are relentless. I'm not spending any nights with them (which they are throwing a tantrum about) staying w/friends and my sister. I'm staying at a campground down the road from them 2 nights and consider that "their time". They're lack of protection both past and present is soul crushing. I also suffer PTSD and have an extreme startle response when feeling cornered, I feel it kicking in which makes me angrier. Even camping down the road will be miserable as every shadow or twig snapping could possibly cause a blood curdling scream out of me.