It turns out I have a genetic tendency to form keloid scars, I found this out because of another scar on my body, so my dermatologist suggested not getting the mole removed on my face since there is the possibility it would scar. So basically I am stuck with it.

Honestly I don't know how I am going to deal with this, it looks noticable to me and I hate what it does to my appearance. My mom insists that it is barely noticable but again I think the reason she thinks it doesn't matter is because she comes from a culture where women aren't given the chance to be superficial and as choosy as they want about guys' looks. Hell I think that even in the U.S., most women over 25ish are often times forced to settle for less. But I don't want to be "less". After all I am choosy myself and will only be interested in the girls I find most attractive physically.