I think maybe I am a black or white thinker. Or maybe I'm just all tired out with making excuses for crappy people.
I hate abusers, and I make no excuses for them. I've been allowing/excusing/accepting bad behavour all my life. An enabler, spent a life time being an enabler. Sigh.
No more. No excuses.

Abusers keep you hooked with the occaissonal unexpected kindness and you are sooo pleased! All is forgiven yay!
Nope. No more games.