I would suggest you start by checking out the group Sex Addicts Anonymous. They have a very helpful website. You need to work out why you are more comfortable with port as to true intimacy with another person. Port addiction is a a way of avoiding intimate relationships. SAA I a great great to help get you started on the right track.

There is also an author Patrick Carns that has written many good books on sex addiction.

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