I'm so sorry that lady bombed out (and yes, bullet firmly dodged) but I AM SO GLAD to see you here again old friend
Stigma's a biyotch, idk how you guys deal with it. Just hearing about it makes me cringe, and at the same time it makes me feel really grateful that I've never had to deal with it.
I don't blame you for being fed up of the stigma and dishonesty NF, it must be exhausting to wade through the bullshyt.
Ps. She IMO, did come across as rude, extremely forward, and definitely dishonest. So even if you had a chance at changing her mind about BP, she'd still be a waste of your time.
Better luck with the next lady