RUN RUN RUN!!! Soooo glad you did!! Good call (putting it mildly!) You are right, talking about exs is not apppropriate, and even more than that is a red flag. Various incidents say...,whiny, always blaming other people, lying, way entitled (do just as she pleases, not to be questioned, want something, therefore takes, assumption of dominance...). These are you *some* of the "treats" her behavior indictates! Not to mention lack of respect and/or disregard for others.