Well, one thing I should point out is that there is a huge difference between nerdy and socially awkward. There are lots of nerdy guys who are cool and charismatic. What is being talked about here though is guys who are just not good at social interaction, like guys with social anxiety or Aspergers.

I am not saying that all women think this way, I am sure many don't. But I think it is common for women to not be attracted to socially awkward guys. And really, there is nothing wrong with that. People can have whatever preferences they want. What I have a problem with is how they are basically suggesting that socially awkward men don't deserve to get a girlfriend and that girls are right to avoid them. It is as if they are equating socially awkward men with psychopaths or something. For some reason I don't imagine socially awkward women being stigmatized in the same way. I think there is a gender bias where society is really concerned about protecting women from men to the point where there is often an irrational paranoia.

Bitterness isn't an attractive trait, but neither is dishonesty. I am saying how I really feel, and if I said I wasn't bitter, I would be lying.