You won't be rejected because of a mole. It is you who is fixating on it. I've had two moles on my arm - one of them I had removed because it was nearly ripped off twice.... but the other one I still have and see no need of getting rid of it. It's a part of who I am. I'm a teacher, and I've had numerous kids of all ages, along with different adults, comment on it. I tend to respond with "It's a part of my body, is that a problem?"... and they think about it for a second, then go "No" "Well, that's that then!"

Women are not as shallow as you keep assuming they are. Those who ARE that shallow... really aren't worth your time. When you are out in public, take a look at the couples you see - are they all perfect, Hollywood-esque models? No. They are not.

There are couples of all shapes, sizes, with all sorts of unique things about their bodies. Sometimes one partner is more "attractive" based on society's standard than the other partner. Sometimes they're more equal.

Unless one of the qualities you want to have in a partner is "shallow" then try not to worry about it. One little mole isn't going to make you hideous or undateable.

You seem a lot more focused on the appearance of who you want to date - that is more likely to make you undateable as you're likely narrowing down women you view as "acceptable" for shallow reasons and may overlook plenty of women who you would get along with.