I agree with the others. You might think she is a nice person but to me she sounds so judgmental and shallow. If was really concerned about how you looked she would offer to exercise with you or something. I hate that she made you feel rejected.. People come in all shapes and sizes. You don't even sound that big anyway. I am so sorry she said this to you. I hope one day you realize that you don't need people who cut you down in your life.