I am so depressed over my ex-boyfriend. He left me in late 2003 for another woman (wouldn't admit it at the time).

I was devastated, to say the least. I no longer wanted him back after say, about 2005.

He moved out of state to be with her, quit his job and everything. (And it was a very good job). I first found out about her because he came into town to introduce her to his parents. He took her to my hairdresser to get her hair done! I thought that was very low, but he proclaimed innocence.

Anyway, we kept in touch via email this whole time (bad idea). Every so often, he would add sexual innuendos to them, which I ignored.

Then, early last year, my father passed away unexpectedly. He owned a business in a very small town not too far from here. He had no will, so I had to auction everything off, including everything in the store, which is right on the Main Street in said town. A few months later (ex is still emailing me acting like he lives 2 states away), I am reading my dad's mail which was forwarded to my house. There is a newsletter from the Chamber of Commerce in the town he lived in, because he was a business owner. It has all of the town's real estate transactions in it. I'll be damned - the ex and his new WIFE bought a house there, and had actually been there since before my dad died.

I was livid, so I sent him a mean email telling him that I knew and that he should have said something to me. I know, what right did I have to be mad? It was just the way I felt. He never responded and hasn't since. But I did promise that I would never cause any kind of trouble or a scene.

Now, I run into an old friend who now lives in same small town. She tells me that she has run into ex and his lovely wife. Wife is a total skank. Total opposite of me - hard looking, wild, flirts with other men, a drunk, tattoos and piercings (nothing wrong with that, just the total opposite of me).

And, my old friend (probably didn't think she was doing harm) sends me his wife's MySpace page. She has taken no less than 300 pictures of herself, and blogs about how much he gets on her nerves. Flirting heavily with other men. Half of the pictures of verging on X rated. (pictures of tattoos on her boobs and butt). Going overseas by herself to get away from him.

AND, talks about her good friend, my old hairdresser! And about walking through their town and being friends with all of the shop owners. (Before I knew they lived there, I used to go back because it made me feel closer to my dad).

I feel like they have invaded everything of mine! First she got my man, then my hairdresser, now my dad's town (where I spent a lot of time). I'm so shook up that I had to leave work today. And I just started there 3 weeks ago. I cannot let this get to me like this - HELP!

P.S. I also have been doing some reading - I now think my ex is a serious narcisisstic personality disorder type, if that adds anything to the equation.