What are your hobbies, interests, how do you interact with women, how many women have you ever asked out, what qualities do you look for in a woman, do you only want to date "hot" women or are you someone who can see the beauty in many others? All of those things will contribute to who you date.

Your "stuff" will NEVER be sorted or solved through another person. That is your job. Dating someone will NOT fix your problems - in fact, when it goes sour either from natural causes or from you somehow expecting them to fix you... you'll just reinforce all of your negative beliefs.