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Originally Posted by Shadix
Unfortunately, society has an issue with men pursuing younger women, so you will likely not get very much support in this.
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Well i did not say it for support
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People will make excuses like saying it is because she is working, but the reality is that if you were her age or younger, people would be encouraging you to go for it.
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I agree. i also agree she is probably trained to be nice to everyone and he is unlikely to get a date but saying it is disrespectful and hitting on her is not true. How could it be disrespectful to ask someone out?
It reminds me of guys who go to a bar because there is a good looking girl behind the bar and they think she is chatting them up. It amazes me they cannot see through it
I once saw something funny in a soap. i do not watch them was waiting fro news. Guy A was in bar with girlfriend. He went to bathroom. Guy B started talking to her. Guy A came back and said stop
"hitting on" my GF.
But think of this. If guy A had not
hit on her in the first place she would not be his GF. So how come it is OK for guy A to do something with the same intention as guy B but not OK for guy B. Both would have had broadly the same intent. It is just defined different as it suits Guy A just as it is defined as hitting on the barista above.
A girl i knew once would go out to a bar and if someone she liked spoke to her he was 'chatting her up' but if she did not like him he was 'coming on to her' Same action. Same intent. Defined differently
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Sorry to be Mr. Doom and Gloom, but that is the way things are. People think it is wrong of you to even glance at a girl that much younger than you. People these days even have a problem with a 27 year old talking to a 22 year old, so how do you think it would be if it was a 60 year old talking to a 25 year old? The western dating scene sucks, if you want to date younger girls, I think the best idea is to move to an Asian or Latin American country. Those societies more open to this and the girls there are very attractive.
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It does not bother me and I am not in Asia but would probably bother the girls here