I have received some very angry words . My daughter's anger is out of control. We were doing better. We both have been trying but a recent event has taken us back to the anger and division of last summer. The pain inside me feels intolerable . It is so hard to think of another reconciliation in light of all these past efforts. She really went after me. The accusations are usually about things I haven't really done. They just come out of her own unhappiness . She is fifty five and still just lets it go no matter who gets damaged. I am very damaged this time. Her horrible words and attitudes have hurt me to the core. I read and I think it is true that you can't take your own negative junk and think you can make yourself feel better by taking it out on others. This is tough after a lifetime of love. A rocky relationship for sure but we always used to come back together. This feels so horrible and permanent . It hurts and I feel stymied to work it out.