You keep making excuses to try to make it the women's fault that you're single....

Not all women want to have a serious, living together relationship. Even women older than 30! There are also many women who are just barely 20 who are hoping to be married and settled down.

How it saying what your hobbies and interests are too identifying?

And no, people don't just find out what they want AFTER dating around.

For example, we already know that you want: young women who don't want anything serious. What ELSE do you want? Sometimes having a clearer idea of what you are looking for can help you find out if what you're even wanting is realistic.

For example (using myself).... sometimes I think I'd want the sort of guy who would sweep me off my feet with classic chivalry. But then when I think about it more.... it would drive me insane: I don't like a lot of "classic" presents, and most of the men I've met who seem to try to be chivalrous are well.... sexist to some degree. Or at least much more traditional than I am! So something that I sometimes think I'd like? It really just wouldn't be compatible to me.

On the other hand - travel is very important to me. I love to travel. I would not be able to be with a man who didn't like the idea of me still travelling as frequently as I could - with or without him. Will I know what someone's stance on that is at the beginning? No, not likely.