I think you are just making life much harder than it really needs to be. You find fault in almost every ones advice. Life isn't always fair its not always going to give you what you desire on a silver platter with a pretty red bow... Its life, it is what YOU make it.

You can sit around and play the blame game, its your inability to dance, you dont like to drink , you have a mole, Im 27 it's unacceptable for me to date younger woman, I don't like bars, etc etc

The fact is you have never been in a relationship,you have nothing to base your beliefs on besides inaccurate data that makes no sense that you seem lap up around the internet on yahoo and whatever, even here... and it doesn't even apply. Maybe you sent off bad vibes, maybe you act strangely or make them uncomfortable or hell maybe you smell bad..

For goodness sake.... people are dating that have lost limbs , Blind, deaf, in wheelchairs and have life altering illness... Sure you want a hot gorgeous girlfriend, you want to play the field and have fun.. Then drop all the bullshyt reasons that you "cant" and go do ! Just go start talking to women, asking them out , you have NOTHING to lose, nothing , Your not going out on dates now , so suck it up and go DO instead of bellyache.