It doesn't and you know that perfectly well, I take issue with your hypocrisy. I didn't ever claim that self harming would improve my problems, it is a coping strategy, and the problem is that it works. Nothing will change the issues I am having, because I have tried every single avenue I could, in regards to the policies, and the sexual health, nothing has worked. As for deeper relationships, guess what, women don't want to be with a non functioning man. But thanks for the judgmental and combative answer, I don't think this is the place for me.