I don't know what's with diagnosing one's exes on this site....

I never thought men didn't want to commit or be with me because they were mentally ill. I would hate to think that my exes decided I am mentally ill because I left them. Sometimes people just don't want to be with someone. It sucks but it happens. What difference does it make if one has add or ocd or depression. Does it make the break up easier?

And frankly he did tell you what was wrong.

It might feel untrue or inaccurate to you but if it bothered him then it was true to him. It doesn't make him crazy or mentally ill.

If you two didn't live together doing his household chores if he didn't ask you for it could feel very intrusive. I would dislike that. Playful banter is ok only up to the point and could get very annoying over time, yes it could feel as bullying, relationship long distance is too difficult and stressful etc etc

Perhaps the reason it didn't bother him in the beginning is the way we all feel when we first fall in love. We are a bit blind. And willing to allow things that aren't necessarily right. As the time progressed he saw its just not working for him. I sympathize with pain and it's not easy but you'll heal and meet the right person. Good luck

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