When i lie, it's usually not done on purpose. It's just i dont know what i'm saying. and i dont know how to explain it. but when it comes to conciously trying to say a lie, i badly suck at it.
usually when i'm writing or nonverbally communicating the unintended lies are remedied. just like i used to say "up and adam" because thats what i heard a lot. but i had no clue what it meant, but it seemed to come out at a fitting time regardless. and i didn't find out that people were actually saying "up and at them" until much later lol..
but no two people on the spectrum are exactly alike.
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Originally Posted by krisakira
But as far as manipulation goes I never really understood how to make people do what you want them to do other than to ask them and hope they comply.
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Same with me. there are actually times i will ask for someone to help me figure out a way to say what i need to, to get what i need. in the end it still doesn't work when i do it like they say, but i still try. and the person ends up having to do it for me because people seem to listen to others more than they listen to me.