I have had my share of failed relationships, I didn't really get closure in most all of them, yeah it sucks. I know any of them that I broke off I really didn't get down to the nitty gritty of why. I think it can be really cruel to point this and that out to the person in great detail. Of course every relationship is different.

The reality is a relationship often fractures and maybe someone is to blame for all of it or more likely both parties make mistakes and it's unbalanced... Possibly its just that its damn hard to keep a relationship healthy, they are really like a garden ....constant need of tending and weeding..

Every relationship I have been in good or bad .. I have always learned something from it.