Awww, isn't transference just the worst/best? I can relate to what you are feeling. A couple of weeks ago I told my T that I can't stand looking at him wearing his wedding ring. It is very painful to have these intense feelings. I just spent nearly a whole session talking about it!

I know that it may seem as though his daughter is perfect. It is natural for you to feel this way, and it would be pointless for me to tell you, "no one is perfect; no one has the perfect life...." because you feel that way. And it hurts like hell, I know.

There is nothing wrong with you. Transference does not always disspiate with time. It takes a lot of work. I have been with my T for 2 years, and the transference gets more intense every single week. I have not addressed a lot of the transference issues I have towards him; I am not ready yet. We are just starting. What you are feeling is okay. Normal. Feels like hell, but there is nothing wrong with you.